I think you should definitely tell your dad, even if he lives far away at least tell him so he’s aware and ask him what to do. Also one state is not that far away and if it is necessary he will definitely come to help I’m sure
But abuse is not something that you should just let go, you need to tell your dad okay sometimes you really do need to let adults step in and solve the problems
good luck bb everything will be okay♥
Don’t be sorry, love. No matter what you have done, I’m still always here to love and care about you. I’m not here to judge you for what you have done, please remember that. It’s your body, not mine. I will love you no matter what.
I know you made a promise, and I know it must be difficult, but I know your friend will understand. The fact that you are thinking about it shows how much you care, and that is very kind of you. I can tell you are an amazing person by the way you care for others. In turn, just know that they care about you.
You’re not weak; well all fall and trip and get lost, and all we can do is keep moving forward. Start a new promise today. Keep walking even if you fall back a bit, you’ll make it. What makes us weak isn’t our failures, but what we choose to do with them. Stay strong, and keep going- for me, for your friends, for this guy, and most importantly, for yourself. You’re beautiful and the world smiles at you. Please remember that.
I can’t tell you what to do or not to do. All I can tell you is that I love you, and I care about you, and there are people in your life who love and care about you. Nobody wants to see you hurt yourself in any way, because you are a special unique person who has so much to offer in this world.
I know life is hard, and it can be difficult to pick ourselves back up from the floor. But you can do it. I know you can. You’ve already taken the first step by asking us for help. That takes a whole lot of courage. And I understand that sometimes we need somebody to love and accept us before we can love and accept ourselves. So I’m here to tell you that I love you, and I accept you no matter who you are, what you’ve done, and where you come from. You’re an amazing human being.
Pretending to be happy is gonna make everything worse, I would suggest telling a friend about how you feel it’ll make things better for sure
try talking to your mom, tell her how you feel and maybe she’ll understand. Parents seem like they never listen but you know they do think about the things we say to them so it can’t hurt to try!
You can do it, you’ll be fine. You can at least look forward to the future for when you’re older and will be able to be more independent!
I can sympathize with you on this, so please don’t feel alone. I agree, try talking to your mother about it and really say how you feel. I know it can be scary talking to your parents, but you will get through it, you’re strong!
It can be difficult to show your true feelings to friends, but talking to one whether that be in person or via phone or text really can put your mind at ease. Tell your friend straight off, “I’m sad, can you help me?” Your friend will understand, because everybody goes through this at some point.
I would suggest volunteering somewhere- I know it’s so hard to meet new people, but having some kind of community to meet people helps. Getting out of the house has always helped me when I’ve felt trapped. Or maybe start going for walks to the park, simple steps to making yourself happy. Create the life you want, and don’t let others hold you back. Be happy, smile, laugh- you’re strong, and we love you! You never know what tomorrow will bring, or the next year, or even 5 years! Keep your head high, because there is so much in the world for you, and you are going to bring so much to this world.
oh lord this was 3 days ago I didn’t even see it I’m so sorry
you are not going to be alone forever, one day someone is going to fall in love with you and want to be with you as much as possible okay. I’m sure you’re an amazing person and I bet anyone would be lucky to know you.
of course getting out there and trying to meet new people would help that along too! :)
I know it can sometimes seem like you will never find the right person, but trust me, you will someday. Sometimes the simplest answers to our problems are the hardest to go through with. It’s not easy to fall in love; It can be a challenge going out into the world and getting close to others. Keep doing what you love, and love will find its way to you. If you love to read, go to the park and read instead of sitting at home. Take small steps, and you will go far in life.
Yep! It’s just answering questions when you can :) I feel like having two people give advice is better than one bc I might not have enough experience about something to give advice about it :p
Anyways just message me off anon!
I can understand not knowing how to talk to others, sometimes it’s really scary
people can judge and say things that really hurt
but there are people who are genuinely nice you know? People who won’t hurt you and people who won’t make you feel empty and alone. They’ll make you feel loved and you’ll have fun and be happy when you’re with them
except you won’t ever find people who make you happy unless you go out and try to find people like that. It’s really hard sometimes but all you have to do is put a little bit of effort in. Just be brave and go say hi to someone, most likely if you start a conversation they’ll carry it and it won’t be as hard as it seems :)
and you said you’re scared of the world well if you try put yourself out there a little bit then eventually it won’t seem scary anymore!
and everyone is selfish, its a fact. Being selfless is hard but doing little things like helping a random person or thinking about how you are impacting someone when making a decision is a big step towards not being selfish. If you don’t want to be selfish then you need to work hard and try your best to improve yourself!
I know you can do it :)
I hope I helped!
I made a post about race earlier that’s offended a lot of people and unfortunately my irl friends saw it too.
I then got a text from one of my friends saying that I “shouldn’t be offended when others have different views” DESPITE the fact that this is very personal for me.
I should be allowed to feel offended, ESPECIALLY after being called a hypocrite. They made it personal for me and I have every right to my anger.
I hate that my friend is making me feel like I’m overreacting, like I should just blow it off, like my emotions are not valid. Me getting called names is not just “banter” as she put it. This is more than that.
And right now, I just feel alienated and alone and like my feelings don’t matter. Because it’s just “banter” and I should just brush it off and leave it as that. I hate that the one time I really get heated on tumblr and let a lot of my feelings out (because I notice that I’ve recently been censoring a lot of my thoughts, even while online), my irl friends don’t take me seriously, and it seems like they’re not even listening. I hate that my irl friends follow me on tumblr because I can’t even have my own safe space away from them.
I want to rant and I want to complain and the one time I do I offend my closest friends.
I don’t even think I’m making much sense right now. I’m just typing words and my feelings are coming out a jumbled mess. I don’t know what to do.
sorry I replied so late bby I wasn’t able to get on the computer :l
I really do understand what you mean, certain things are really important to you and when you’re really passionate about it people see it as overreacting. I don’t think that you should feel bad about anything, if its something you feel strongly about then you have every right to voice your opinions. Race is a huge issue, I get offended when people say little comments and most people don’t understand but even the small comments hurt so much. Things that are viewed as jokes by other people can have a completely different meaning for you so no your feelings completely matter and if you feel uncomfortable and don’t like whats being said to you then you have every right to be upset.
But your friends are really important too, so I would say to try and explain it as best you can without getting too upset. If they still don’t understand then tell them that you’re still going to voice your opinions and that if they see it then they just shouldn’t comment on it because if other people are allowed to disagree with you then you can disagree with them too.
Anyways, don’t blow it off bby but don’t let it ruin your friendship either.
Don’t rush your feelings, you don’t want to be like “okay maybe i like him!” And decide to go out with him, if you don’t have feelings for him that would just end badly for you both
Also just because you realize he’s a nice person you don’t have to have feelings for him, but if you do think you have feelings for him just pay attention to how you feel around him
So I would just wait til you know more about how you’re feeling, he likes you yes but that doesn’t mean you need to like him back right away
You can stay friends (or not if you and him don’t want to) until you figure out your feelings and then go from there
Hi! Sorry i was in school or sleeping when you sent this :/
Send me a message ill reply asap!